Category "Relationships"

Episode 65 – How do I stop letting negative comments from people ruin my day?

admin - July 12, 2016 - Business, Career, Consciousness, Creativity, Gossip, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation, Work

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:

“How do I stop letting negative comments from people ruin my day?”

Learn how Eminem, naps, and a new paradigm for compassion can help you take back your power when people are “hating” on you!

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You know what WE think and now it’s time for YOU to weigh in…

Let us know in the comments below!

AND be sure to check out JG’s new TEDx Talk, the impactful and hilarious “How to Manufacture Fascination and Engineer Enthusiasm” by clicking here!

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Episode 60 – How do I go after my dreams when I feel an attachment to my current situation?

Jason Goldberg - March 10, 2016 - Change, Consciousness, Creativity, Dreams, Love, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Joanna’s question:

“How do I go after my dreams when I feel an attachment to my current situation?”

You know what WE think and now it’s time for YOU to weigh in…

What did you think of Steve’s super-simple, two-step process for moving to your dream location? (JG took notes because he loved it)

Was JG’s story of picking up and moving his family and his realization about attachments helpful for you to see what may really be holding you back?

Let us know in the comments below!

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Episode 58 – What do you do when stepping out of your comfort zone creates huge amounts of stress?

Jason Goldberg - February 25, 2016 - Change, Consciousness, Kids, Love, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Tracy’s question:

“What do you do when stepping out of your comfort zone creates huge amounts of stress?”

Growth, transformation and success don’t have to come from stepping WAY out of your comfort zone but instead can come from exercising just a bit more courage, little by little, in each moment where you are experiencing something new or challenging.

You know what WE think and now it’s time for YOU to weigh in…

How can use the tips and techniques we shared to help you with your own fears, whether it is related to public speaking or anything else that you are stepping into as an opportunity for growth and transformation for yourself?

Let us know in the comments below!

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Episode 56 – What do I do if my growth is hurting my relationships with people around me?

Jason Goldberg - February 10, 2016 - Change, Consciousness, Kids, Love, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Kim’s question:

“What do I do if my growth is hurting my relationships with people around me?”

Can you see how the people around you may be trying to either project or protect (and how neither of those things are really YOUR business)?

Are you willing to send them love, whether from near or far, and do what is best for you – even if that means finding more like-minded support outside of your current circle?

You know what WE think and now it’s time for YOU to weigh in…

Let us know in the comments below!

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JG and SC

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Episode 46 – What should I do if my spouse gets upset anytime I participate in hobbies that don’t include her?

Jason Goldberg - December 18, 2015 - Business, Change, Consciousness, Creativity, family, Fun, Love, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Time Management, Transformation

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Dr. John’s question:

“What should I do if my spouse gets upset anytime I participate in hobbies that don’t include her?”

You know what WE think and now it’s time for YOU to weigh in…

Are you going to start asking the vitally important question Steve posed, during your dating relationship, to make sure this doesn’t happen to you?

If you are past the “recruiting” phase and that question doesn’t apply to you, are you willing to have the conversation that JG talked about to find out how you can support your significant other and help them to feel what and how they want to feel in their own lives?

Let us know in the comments below!

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Episode 37 – What are your top 3 tips for a successful relationship?

Jason Goldberg - November 10, 2015 - Change, Consciousness, Fun, Love, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Steve’s question:

“What are your top 3 tips for a successful relationship?”

Now that you know our views, we want to hear from you!

What tips can you share with your fellow TNSSL’ers to help them have happy, fruitful and successful relationships?

Let us know in the comments below!

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JG and SC

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Episode 29 – How do we know when it’s time to quit a particular project or activity?

Jason Goldberg - October 12, 2015 - Business, Change, Consciousness, Fun, ideas, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation, Work

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Tom’s question:

“How do we know when it’s time to quit a particular project or activity?”

Now we want to hear from you!

How did you decide when it was time to leave one project behind and refocus your energy on something new? Whether a job, relationship, or even a hobby!

Let us know in the comments below!

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Episode 21 – How do you feel about Manifestos? Do either of you have one?

Jason Goldberg - September 16, 2015 - Consciousness, Fun, manifesto, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Faith’s question:

“How do you feel about Manifestos? Do either of you have one?“

Tune in today to Episode 21 of TNSSL to hear Steve’s thoughts on the power of having our personal internal commitments (constitution) written down AND the question he shares to ask yourself before undertaking this or any other exercise like it.
(Psuedo-spoiler, the question is not “does everyone else say I SHOULD do it?”)

Plus somehow Bobby Brown becomes a part of the discussion?!

Then JG pulls back the curtain (don’t worry, he is fully dressed) and shares his personal “WHY” statement and the super simple way he keeps it front of mind to guide him on who he is being and what he is doing!

How about you?

Leave us a comment below and tell us what you do to keep your values and commitments front of mind and how you stay on track. Do you have something written down or some other physical reminder of what you are working towards or who you need to be in order to live your ideal life?

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Episode 19 – How do you make a romantic relationship work when you hold opposing perspectives of the world?

Jason Goldberg - September 11, 2015 - Change, Consciousness, Fun, Love, Relationships, Self-Mastery, Transformation

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:

“How do you make a romantic relationship work when you hold opposing perspectives of the world?”

Whether this was a legitimate question or just an attempt to land us in the doghouse, today’s question brings JG and Steve’s MUCH better halves (Alicia and Kathy, respectively) into the spotlight!

Steve shares how he welcomes Kathy’s opposing views and JG shares the 3-step “gentle” process that Alicia used to help transform him from a helpless, angry victim into a powerful, self-leading owner!

Time for you to weigh in!

How do you work (or play) with a significant other who has opposing views or philosophies from yours? Does anything we shared today seem like it would be helpful in your personal relationships?

Also, to our Inner Circle members, share pictures of the SWAG BAGS we sent you on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or wherever else you hang out online (and tag us) so JG can finally find out what surprises Steve put in the packages!

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Episode 16 – How can I stop disagreements with my spouse from becoming blaming matches?

admin - September 4, 2015 - Consciousness, Fun, Relationships, Self-Mastery

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:

“Anytime my spouse and I have a disagreement, it turns into a blaming match. How can I stop that?”

Steve’s celebrity status may be going to his head after a recent breakfast outing he had BUT we are going to try to stay on track for Episode 16 of The Not-So-Serious Life!

Since “Why won’t you just listen to me?!?!?” and “Calm Down!!” don’t seem to work in diffusing conflict, maybe this episode will help you have productive, relationship-building “disagreements” with your spouse (and other people in your life) a little more gracefully and effectively.

JG talks about what he believes blame really means, how it can be a gift and the question he asks himself when in a potentially emotional convo with his wife to slow him down and bring him back to reality.

Steve also shares a really powerful reframe of blame and how to go from what we think we need to do in those situations to a place of love, understanding and a Not-So-Serious interpretation of the blame.

Plus, stay tuned til the end to see Jason’s Not-So-Serious version of absolute freedom!

Do you ever get into blaming matches with your significant other or co-workers or friends?

Drop us a comment below and let us know if you think the reframes and tips we shared may work in your own difficult conversations or disagreements.

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JG and SC

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