Category "Self-Mastery"

Episode 20 – How can I be playful in a business setting without looking unprofessional?

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Steve’s question:

“How can I be playful in a business setting without looking unprofessional?”

Playfulness in a professional environment – does it mean you should walk into a business meeting and start goofing off and being a class clown like JG did for the first 18 years of his life? 

Find out today as we tease out the SPIRIT of play vs. the action of playing and what the goal of playfulness is for Steve.

JG also shares how his version of playfulness helped him to connect more authentically and to strengthen his relationships with colleagues and clients back in his corporate days.

And we give a great big shout out of appreciation to Inner Circle Members Jackie and Jenelle for their love and support of the show!

P.S. – Stay tuned to the end for proof that you can neither dress JG up nor take him anywhere.  Watch as he ruins his workspace and invites all of the ants in his building to feast on his office.

We want to hear from you!

How have you been able to balance a playful way of being with a professional demeanor in your own life?  

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JG and SC


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Episode 19 – How do you make a romantic relationship work when you hold opposing perspectives of the world?

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:

“How do you make a romantic relationship work when you hold opposing perspectives of the world?”

Whether this was a legitimate question or just an attempt to land us in the doghouse, today’s question brings JG and Steve’s MUCH better halves (Alicia and Kathy, respectively) into the spotlight!

Steve shares how he welcomes Kathy’s opposing views and JG shares the 3-step “gentle” process that Alicia used to help transform him from a helpless, angry victim into a powerful, self-leading owner!

Time for you to weigh in!

How do you work (or play) with a significant other who has opposing views or philosophies from yours?  Does anything we shared today seem like it would be helpful in your personal relationships?

Also, to our Inner Circle members, share pictures of the SWAG BAGS we sent you on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or wherever else you hang out online (and tag us) so JG can finally find out what surprises Steve put in the packages!

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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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Episode 18 – Why do you think some people experience real transformation in their lives and others don’t?

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Caroline’s question:

“Why do you think some people experience real transformation in their lives and others don’t?”

JG embraces his inner “Rainbow Rasta” as the team talk about the ONE thing they each think is vital to real transformation in our lives (both to occur and to stick!).

Also, Steve answers the question of “Why you NEED to change”, JG talks about the two (seemingly opposite) sides of the transformation coin AND Steve teaches JG some French!

PLUS, we shout out two of our amazing Inner Circle members, Mandy and Christina who we are so grateful to for helping spread the word about our show!

We want to hear from you…

What has helped YOU to create and maintain transformation in your own life?  

Let us know in the comments below!

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JG and SC


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Episode 17 – How do I strengthen my mindset and believe more in myself?

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Malcolm’s question:

“How do I strengthen my mindset and believe more in myself?”

Besides having TWO new possible leads for sponsorships (since Kelloggs is STILL dragging their feet) we also talk about the beliefs, worries and judgments we may carry with us when we try something for the first time, like starting a new business.

Plus JG and Steve share two alternatives to believing in yourself that are both powerful and practical – IF you are willing to test them out!

Tell us what YOU think…

Have you ever tried to uncover evidence from your past successes as a way to jumpstart your activity on a new project or opportunity?

Where else do you get stuck on “believing” in yourself that holds you back from taking action?

Let us know in the comments below!

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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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Episode 16 – How can I stop disagreements with my spouse from becoming blaming matches?

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:

“Anytime my spouse and I have a disagreement, it turns into a blaming match. How can I stop that?”

Steve’s celebrity status may be going to his head after a recent breakfast outing he had BUT we are going to try to stay on track for Episode 16 of The Not-So-Serious Life!

Since “Why won’t you just listen to me?!?!?” and “Calm Down!!” don’t seem to work in diffusing conflict, maybe this episode will help you have productive, relationship-building “disagreements” with your spouse (and other people in your life) a little more gracefully and effectively.

JG talks about what he believes blame really means, how it can be a gift and the question he asks himself when in a potentially emotional convo with his wife to slow him down and bring him back to reality.

Steve also shares a really powerful reframe of blame and how to go from what we think we need to do in those situations to a place of love, understanding and a Not-So-Serious interpretation of the blame.

Plus, stay tuned til the end to see Jason’s Not-So-Serious version of absolute freedom!

Do you ever get into blaming matches with your significant other or co-workers or friends?

Drop us a comment below and let us know if you think the reframes and tips we shared may work in your own difficult conversations or disagreements.

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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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JG and Steve Theme Song and DANCE PARTY!

We have a Not-So-Serious Life theme song!

Steve and JG received an amazing surprise recently from one of our Not-So-Serious VIPs in the form of a custom-written and performed Theme Song JUST for our show!

Peter Sykes did an absolutely wonderful job creating a fun, light-hearted and totally chill song and it inspired us to do a…DANCE PARTY!

If you want to download the song by itself, click here!

We had such a blast just letting it all hang out and having FUN with our lives for a few minutes and hope that it puts a smile on your face (and maybe even inspires you to dance along with us).

Now here is where things get REALLY fun…

We are convinced that everyone could use a big dose of light, love, laughter and levity in their world and so we want to see how many people we can get to see this video today so that they can be in HIGH SPIRITS for the rest of the day!

Will you help us spread the smiles and the spirit?  

If you want to help turn our movement into a movement, share the youtube video with the people you love, like (or even dislike) and be a part of their Not-So-Serious transformation!

I know that if we work together, we can easily get 5,000 people into motion today!

Are you in?

As always, thank you for your love and support! We truly appreciate all of you tuning in and being a part of our big, happy family!

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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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Episode 15 – If you are not creating the wealth you want, what do you recommend?

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:

“If you are not creating the financial wealth you want, and can’t figure out how to serve any greater than you currently are doing then what do you recommend?”

In this episode Steve shares an alternative to “figuring things out” that will allow you to lighten up, serve more deeply and create more wealth including what Steve’s coach, the great Steve Hardison, taught him about making more money!

Also JG shares his distinction of focusing on evolutionary vs. revolutionary service and how to be more creative and honest about where and how you can best serve to create more financial prosperity!

Oh and we may have a new name for the show…listen in and tell us what you think? Too honest?

What say YOU?

Leave us a comment below and tell us what you found most valuable in this episode and if you feel even 1% more creative about how you can serve your way to more wealth!

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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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Episode 14 – How can I avoid acting like a victim when a situation doesn’t go my way?

- - Consciousness, Fun, Self-Mastery, Work

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer Robert’s question:

“How can I avoid acting like a victim when a situation doesn’t go my way?”

In this episode, Steve shares THE MOST transformational concept I have ever learned from him which helped me (JG) to re-invent my life!

Even if you have heard it before, hear it again with new ears and then use the simple and practical tips he shares (including the radical 30 day challenge) to help you APPLY it in your life!

Plus you will learn that even if you DO react as a “victim” there is still the potential to be an owner in that situation AND what TRAINS have to do with being the owner of your experience.

Plus, I think we have FINALLY cracked the code on what is going to get us that Kellogg’s sponsorship!

We want to hear from you!

Have you had a situation like JG did at the airport recently where you reacted as a victim and realize now what responding like an owner may have looked like instead?

Leave us a comment below and tell us what you would do if you encountered that situation again, given this new idea!

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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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Episode 13 – How do you take “serious” money issues not-so-seriously?

- - Consciousness, Fun, Self-Mastery, Wealth

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer “financial funundrum’s” (thats one awesome alias) viewer question:

“How do you take ‘serious’ money issues not-so-seriously?”

Sure, challenging financial situations can have an impact AND at the same time, we have the power to help shape that impact and use our innate creativity to come up with innovative ideas from a not-so-serious place!

In this episode you will learn to reframe your story around “serious” money issues and who you need to be to come up with the most creative solutions!

Time for you to weigh in!

Did you get more clarity from seeing things through Steve’s goggles?!?

After listening to JG and SC what are your thoughts on seemingly “serious” money issues?  How can YOU experiment with being relaxed, creative, responsible and focused around money so you get access to ideas that are unthinkable when we are being too serious?

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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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Episode 12 – How can I be creative when dealing with my parents being gravely ill?

Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:

“How can I be creative and have a growth mind-set when dealing with my parents being gravely ill?”

At some point in our lives we all have or will probably encounter the challenge of seeing the people we love age, deal with sickness or be injured.

That makes today’s The Not-So-Serious Life viewer question one that I’m sure we can all relate to and benefit from talking about.

Tune in to hear our take on how to shift into a place of love, laughter, creativity and hope in the face of what may seem like dire circumstances.

Now, we want to hear your perspective…

Let us know in the comments below if you think approaching this situation as the “Light and Love” instead of the “Doom and Gloom” would be more effective and #NotSoSerious for you and your loved ones?


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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,

JG and SC


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