Today on The Not-So-Serious Life, Jason and Steve answer the viewer question:
“Anytime my spouse and I have a disagreement, it turns into a blaming match. How can I stop that?”
Steve’s celebrity status may be going to his head after a recent breakfast outing he had BUT we are going to try to stay on track for Episode 16 of The Not-So-Serious Life!
Since “Why won’t you just listen to me?!?!?” and “Calm Down!!” don’t seem to work in diffusing conflict, maybe this episode will help you have productive, relationship-building “disagreements” with your spouse (and other people in your life) a little more gracefully and effectively.
JG talks about what he believes blame really means, how it can be a gift and the question he asks himself when in a potentially emotional convo with his wife to slow him down and bring him back to reality.
Steve also shares a really powerful reframe of blame and how to go from what we think we need to do in those situations to a place of love, understanding and a Not-So-Serious interpretation of the blame.
Plus, stay tuned til the end to see Jason’s Not-So-Serious version of absolute freedom!
Do you ever get into blaming matches with your significant other or co-workers or friends?
Drop us a comment below and let us know if you think the reframes and tips we shared may work in your own difficult conversations or disagreements.
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Wishing you big fun, big love, and big laughs,
JG and SC
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